"she is soo.... pretty, sweet, cute, nice.." this is wad i found when kaypo-ing in others friendster... is tt what guys nowadays are attracted to??? for all u know, this ger might be so dependent on others, have no thoughts of her own, have no thoughts for life (nim, i can hear u mumbling, but the fact is i really have more thouts than she does), no sense of direction or whatsoever.. what im trying to say here is not that she's blah blah blah or blah blah blah... what im trying to point out is, is this "she is soo.... pretty, sweet, cute, nice.." all guys see in a girl?? *roll eyes*.. what about independence?? which is really an important part in life.... chapter 1- independence like able to take care of urself, so ger do not haf to call guy in the middle of nite n say, "im having menses.. HOW???" ger oso do not have to call guy when he's in the middle of the meetin n say, "i dunno how to go to bla bla bla.. can u come n fetch me pls, even thou u r in the west n im in the east" n every other thing about independence... but when u come to think of it, it's the unindependence= dependence, tt guys like.. eg. "hun, can u come n fetch me.. i dunno how to go.. wad if i got lost??" the guy will be like, arrgh i all i can do is try to go down to fetch her if not she'll get lost, cry, pout, bla bla bla... den he'll juz go alll the way down to fetch her, n she'll think tt he's so sweet... aww... den kiss him, hug him, bla bla bla... den he'll think, hmmm... it's not a bad idea tt i came n pick her.. so den, she likes, n he likes, n happili ever after.. probably tt's y im not in a relationship.. cos i enjoy being independent... thou i rely on my girlies once in a while.. but i still prefer to go to a specific place on my own, figure out directions on my own.. bla bla..

chapter 2- thoughts... (the next time i blog)